He might focus solely on your pleasure if he has difficulty performing. When his orgasm takes longer, you don’t have to try to rush yours. If he needs more time to get revved up, you get more time to do the same. While you might not necessarily think of erectile issues as being a good thing, they can force a guy to slow down (Read: The Ultimate Guide to Slow Sex).
Once the focus of sex moves away from his penis, it can move toward your pleasure or connection as a couple. He “resorts” to his hands and mouth, perhaps your favorite toy.
The way this plays out when you have sex with an older man is like this: he might have difficulty having or sustaining an erection, so he’s looking for other ways to please. Hint: the brain is the most sexual organ. And it might not even be the most important one! Lack of understanding might be why guys struggle to turn on female partners. If there’s one thing that many guys, especially the younger ones, fail to understand it’s that their penis isn’t the only organ involved in sex. If you’re just learning what you like, his experience might help you hone in on what works and avoid what doesn’t.
This works out for you because he’s more likely to pay attention to your desires and needs as well as listen to your feedback. There’s a good chance that sex with an older man will be better because he’s spent more time pleasing women or at least one or two women - perhaps both! He’s seen women who are young and eager to please as well as those who are older who demand their pleasure.
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